hi all im stewart, returned, looking for advice

[imagine]

research is ongoing now, thats part the reason im here both for this health info, and of course to be well advised on visas getting married ect, and of course living in the philipines, brenda seems to think it wont be so bad, and she will guaruntor for me if should be nessacery, should i not be able to get back home for treatment,i feel i can justify the risk to stay well for a year stay there there to find out better there the situation regarding any medicine treatment ect, as long as the cancer stays away, theres not much medication i need, vit b12 every 3 months by needle, magnesium suppliment, and proberbly the worst i need to know i can get is theromone replacement therepy, sounds big , but all it is is gel to rub in skin, or later can be injection like as vit b12, i justify the risk more now since being ill , than i did before, looking at life in a dfferent light, i dont know if you can understand that, id rather live 2 years happy and in love,, than here alone for 5 years 10 yrs , i dont know you understand that, but i do understand all of you with your concerns and again i listen and appreciate all your input yes i realise health insurance is tricky with exsisting conditions, please dont think i am dismissing your advise on health, i am gratefull to you all please keep it comming , thank you,,, stewart

[Terpe]

research is ongoing now, thats part the reason im here both for this health info, and of course to be well advised on visas getting married ect, and of course living in the philipines, brenda seems to think it wont be so bad, and she will guaruntor for me if should be nessacery, should i not be able to get back home for treatment,i feel i can justify the risk to stay well for a year stay there there to find out better there the situation regarding any medicine treatment ect, as long as the cancer stays away, theres not much medication i need, vit b12 every 3 months by needle, magnesium suppliment, and proberbly the worst i need to know i can get is theromone replacement therepy, sounds big , but all it is is gel to rub in skin, or later can be injection like as vit b12, i justify the risk more now since being ill , than i did before, looking at life in a dfferent light, i dont know if you can understand that, id rather live 2 years happy and in love,, than here alone for 5 years 10 yrs , i dont know you understand that, but i do understand all of you with your concerns and again i listen and appreciate all your input yes i realise health insurance is tricky with exsisting conditions, please dont think i am dismissing your advise on health, i am gratefull to you all please keep it comming , thank you,,, stewart

Tell you what Stewart, you have more than satisfied all my concerns, both with your responses and with your attitude. Personally, from what you have disclosed, I have no doubts about your lady. Everything looks OK.
My own thinking is the same as yours. Better to be happy.
God Bless you Stewart and your future wife. You now have enough information to realise your dream. If your daughter supports your idea give it your best shot.
I'm still curious. Where do you intend to live?? The reason I ask is because I have a n umber of houses in Phils but cannot decide where to settle. I do know it's not gonna be Manila (even I do enjoy the big city), maybe Davao ( close to my wifes birth village) Or actually the very small fishing village where my wife was born (which I do love)
Stewart, maybe your brave decision will give me courage to do what I really feel I want!

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thank you Terpe, where to live, brenda has land there which is rice fields and land with trees planted growing to be harvested, both are rented out so she earns rent for them plus a percentage of the crops takings,there is i beleive more land which a house could be built,her land ajoins her parents land who live their,i would have no objection to telling you the name of area but dont realy want publish here for all to see , no offence,
however it is obviously away from the city country land,but low lying with regard to heat and me coping with that,and that id be living close to her family, if we decide to live there she will have a house built for us, if not she suggest more elevated land which means buying and it costing more, but it will be cooler more bareable for me,she will not buy untill we know if i can cope my 6mths 1 year trial period,this is her 1st choice, 2nd choice she will come live in uk with me but it is not what she realy wants,here she may have to work and me i will have to,, in philipines we can both retire,travel a little and enjoy life,i live in a village here now, i have lived in the suburbs of a city for most my younger life, neither brenda or i wish to live in a busy city as manila, but not too far away either, these choices are individual but good we agree the same,. im here looking for advice and encouragement, its a surprise and is good to see i have influenced some courage for you, i do hope so thanks again to you, keep in touch, stewart

[stevewool]

i justify the risk more now since being ill , than i did before, looking at life in a dfferent light, i dont know if you can understand that, id rather live 2 years happy and in love,, than here alone for 5 years 10 yrs , i dont know you understand that, but i do understand all of you with your concerns and again i listen and appreciate all your input

well stewart, that says it all, thats how i would see it too, you go for it mate and with both arms open, good luck

[imagine]

thanks much appreciated, any time if you have more advice or think of something i should know , its welcomed , stewart