Quote Originally Posted by ampy View Post
dont agree with your comment!,,we leave our family,which is notvery easy to do,,but we always do it for work and family improvement HOPE THAT WE CAN A BE LOT HELP LEAVING OUR OWN FAMILY AND CHILDREN,than STAYING with them ,,,,not just for sex ,it will be great if we found a real love and help us as well .We all make sure we dont forget to support our love once back in the philippines, most of us work very hard so we can be helpful in our family,we dont just do it for fun,very rare you will hear filipina just run off from her family in the philippines.
.It takes a lot of guts to do and sacrifice our selves ,hoping once we left we will be ok and in returns will be able to send love back by supporting them in any way we can with the loving help of our understanding ,loving and kind foreign spouse.we all take family very serious.
Wow what a nice range of replies I picked this one to reply to as it had a fair few points that I could reply to

First many in the first world make comments that mixed marriages from the Fils are mostly economic, this doesnt make it true of course, there are as many reasons for people to fall in love as birds in the sky but the generalisation game needs no facts beyond its own predjudices.

The fact that a "White women"with kids may have fallen in love with a guy from tunisia doesnt make her a "****" any more than a Pinoy with kids falling in love with a long nose or African ?

You might look at the results of the relationships and conclude perhaps that it wasnt good for one or both but thats not in any way connected to the existance of a social security system ,which in this case protects the kids in fact it would be great if such a safety net existed in the Phils as there might be less hungry kids.

I see no reason to demonise any person who, in the pursuit of happiness may have made poor choices, I dont think that the Sacrifice trait is as clear cut as suggested but rather more to do with peer pressure and guilt I meet an awful lot of Hambogeras who seem to have overcome it.

"it will be great if we found a real love and help us as well"

Thats very true but there have also been many instances of Pinoys who picked the wrong guy or job held hostage in foriegn country,s and it would be equaly inapropriate to use the s word to describe them thats why I say there is no difference

In short I think this thread is more to do with Deads mental state that a white woman with a "rag head" must be a **** than any actual reality after all it is her "Husband"

P.S. I note that whilst the offending s word is filtered out here it appears with immpunity in the thread title