Hello Andy,

I have read your post and I would like to share my opinion (filipina perspective).

Firstly, i do agree with Graham about the 'lady COULD be a scammer'. As you've said, you only met her for 2 months. Be aware that there are a lot of 'fake' people in the world. Not only in the Philippines. Although you communicate in a daily basis, I believe it is not enough for you to go and visit her ASAP and knowing that you'll only stay there for a week. 7 days is not enough, again, they are right... you'll just have jetlag. Better save the date when you can visit her for 21 days.

And another thing, don't take advantage of the fact that she will be staying in the same room with you. Respect her. Remember, it is your 1st meeting. (My hubby DID NOT during his first visit, because I told him to wait till our wedding night (P.S I was a virgin and 19 that time) and I admire and proud of him so much for patiently waiting
BUT if she insists, then go for it! lol.

Girls could be very demanding sometimes, I myself will be sad/upset when my hubby can't txt me while I was still in the Philippines. But you're right you should take it positively, it only means that she is attached already... to you.

Well, it is still up to you anyway, whether you'll do it soon or wait. Best of luck to you!