Have I Ruined Her Life?

[Ako Si Jamie]

To be brutally honest, no you haven't ruined her life and you shouldn't be made to feel guilty. It sounds to me that she's in 'pieces' because she's worried about losing her £200 monthly payment.

You've met her once in over four years, she's lied to you about being married and she failed to turn up to meet you last year. Call me cynical, but it looks like you've been taken for a ride. Apologies if I sound harsh but sometimes you need to be cruel to be kind.

[guyki]

To be brutally honest, no you haven't ruined her life and you shouldn't be made to feel guilty. It sounds to me that she's in 'pieces' because she's worried about losing her £200 monthly payment.

You've met her once in over four years, she's lied to you about being married and she failed to turn up to meet you last year. Call me cynical, but it looks like you've been taken for a ride. Apologies if I sound harsh but sometimes you need to be cruel to be kind.

About to say the same and TBH i would never let my GF stay in AC will I'm sponsoring her,cut your losses and move on she will most definately find someone else and forget about.As said in previous posts use the money you were sending and get yourself back to Phills

[jhoana]

so sad but if u really feel she is honest n if u really love her fiht for it till u got the chnce to be together,be patient n 2years wating is not too long thn nothing aat all,

[jhoana]

if ever u need a shoulder just lean on me n i am willing to listenanywy im from angeles too

[grahamw48]

if ever u need a shoulder just lean on me n i am willing to listenanywy im from angeles too

Maybe you can check on his girl in the hospital.

[KeithD]

if ever u need a shoulder just lean on me n i am willing to listenanywy im from angeles too

That's a hint Ian