:( here...why some husbands dont want to let their wife work?????? why why why???

[Ako Si Jamie]

I read it this way....maybe right, maybe wrong.

When men behave like this (especially if the husband is a few years older than the wife) it means he is INSECURE.

He is afraid of losing you because either you will meet someone else where you work, or you will become less dependent upon him, or both.

In attempting to control you in this way he is laying the foundations for the break up of your marriage.

You are a young woman with your whole life ahead of you, not someone's closely guarded slave.

You do need to speak seriously to him, and I'd suggest seeing a marriage guidance counsellor if he will not relent from this selfish behaviour.

That can be the case but not always. Some guys particularly the traditionalists think that the man should be the breadwinner and the woman should stay at home. In my opinion it should be up to her what she wants to do!

[grahamw48]

That can be the case but not always. Some guys particularly the traditionalists think that the man should be the breadwinner and the woman should stay at home. In my opinion it should be up to her what she wants to do!

This is the 21st century !

Maybe guys like that should discuss such important issues before they wed.

Same result anyway.

[Ako Si Jamie]

This is the 21st century !

Tell them, not me