Ciao!

[Terpe]

Hello there sweetnote, welcome here.

You will find plenty of members here who are very open with great advice based on their actual experiences.

How long have you known your b/f?
Have you physically met so far?

[sweetnote143]

Hello there sweetnote, welcome here.

You will find plenty of members here who are very open with great advice based on their actual experiences.

How long have you known your b/f?
Have you physically met so far?

not for a long time, we've started chatting last December. he's planning to come here by November, if he really is that willing. I know it will be a long before I start thinking about visa but he's been asking me about requirements to apply for visa.....it's quite far from my mind coz for one thing we havent meet in person yet. i want to know him, who he is, in person. being together makes a lot of difference.

[Terpe]

not for a long time, we've started chatting last December. he's planning to come here by November, if he really is that willing. I know it will be a long before I start thinking about visa but he's been asking me about requirements to apply for visa.....it's quite far from my mind coz for one thing we havent meet in person yet. i want to know him, who he is, in person. being together makes a lot of difference.

If you both find the relationship is working well then I would suggest that you b/f visits Philippines to meet up. It's so much easier than for you to make application for a visit visa, these visa are notoriously problematic to secure.

I may sound a bit old-fashioned, but if and when you do meet up I suggest having a friend with you (almost like a chaperone). But anyway it's up to you.

[sars_notd_virus]

not for a long time, we've started chatting last December. he's planning to come here by November, if he really is that willing. I know it will be a long before I start thinking about visa but he's been asking me about requirements to apply for visa.....it's quite far from my mind coz for one thing we havent meet in person yet. i want to know him, who he is, in person. being together makes a lot of difference.

hi sweetnote welcome here!!

yes, meet the guy first and start from there.

british guys are very straightforward , its just a ''yes'' or a ''no'' for an answer,..lol i should know i married one

goodluck to both of you and hope you find each other meant-to-be-together in the future.

[sweetnote143]

british guys are very straightforward , its just a ''yes'' or a ''no'' for an answer,..lol i should know i married one

goodluck to both of you and hope you find each other meant-to-be-together in the future.

thanks, married one oh I forgot to mention that he is Italian who lives and works in UK.....I dont know much the difference but I expect a man to be straightforward coz I am...


Thanks, Terpe! I'll keep that in mind if he finally set the date when he'll visit me.