a trait of a foreign men or men in general....need advice, I'm so confused

[ann_barnett]

But what really drained me out, I'm not complaining but it's a fact, was the amount I spend for e-load so I can always send SMS to him. I guess you know pretty well how much it cost for a single text, and add 3 to 6 SMS just in one night....add how many days in a month....I think you know how much it is costing me....I didnt mind coz I am happy sending him SMS, letting him know that I'm thinking about him...sweetnothings but important to us. Before, I can only send him 1 to 2 SMS in a day, he complained coz he thought I wasnt serious about him. So I made the effort coz somehow I want to work things out.....

Hello sweetnote143...
What i did before we got married, i bought a SMART PINOY SIM then roam it here in the Philippines then i sent the SIMCARD to him so that when im texting him it wouldn't cost me that much... So what my BF (who is my husband now) did, he bought a small cheap mobile for that pinoy simcard... because for me it is more practical for both of us... Until now we're still on the same set up, i'll text him at smart which costs me P1/msg then he will reply to my using his UK number.. Then what he did also, he subscribes to international texting which is more affordable...

It works for us especially to me as now i can text him using more than 160 characters per text message without bothering that it will cost me too much...

Hope things get better for both of you soon....


-Ann-

[sweetnote143]

Hope things get better for both of you soon....

thanks, ann.....I dont know about that part, I made my decision already and I gave him my word that I wont bother him anymore. I keep my word. It's hard really, but life must go on.