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    Quote Originally Posted by grahamw48 View Post
    If you're coming on a Spouse/Fiancee visa....(you don't state which)....

    better to take her sooner rather than later, and less visa problems for you bringing her here than by leaving her with relations.

    The education system is better here, and she will adjust more easily at a younger age.

    Just my opinion, but I have already brought two young children here from the Phils.

    If coming on a visitor visa, then maybe easier to leave her there.
    Im sorry Im absent minded at the moment. hehehe. I am applying for a Fiancee Visa and will lodge my application this coming 26th of April.

    The child doesnt want to go with me cos shes fond and used to be surrounded by my family aside from shes having a great time learning at school. I left her here when I went to the UK last year for a visit visa and it worked well.

    Im really having a hard time what to do? I dont want her to force to come with me if she dont wanted to.

    What do u think is the best thing to do in my case?


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    Quote Originally Posted by melovesengland View Post
    Im sorry Im absent minded at the moment. hehehe. I am applying for a Fiancee Visa and will lodge my application this coming 26th of April.

    The child doesnt want to go with me cos shes fond and used to be surrounded by my family aside from shes having a great time learning at school. I left her here when I went to the UK last year for a visit visa and it worked well.

    Im really having a hard time what to do? I dont want her to force to come with me if she dont wanted to.

    What do u think is the best thing to do in my case?
    Since you're on a settlement visa and since you've asked the question, I'll give my honest opinion.
    Take you child with you.

    It's quite likely that you'll find some difficulty in bringing your child to UK later.
    It all depends how long you leave it and how you extend your responsibility towards the care.

    Be very careful about writing any letter stating who will take care of your child and how. It's very easy to be interpreted as giving up some part of responsibility. Personally I would forget any idea about that letter

    Just my opinion.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Terpe View Post
    Since you're on a settlement visa and since you've asked the question, I'll give my honest opinion.
    Take you child with you.

    It's quite likely that you'll find some difficulty in bringing your child to UK later.
    It all depends how long you leave it and how you extend your responsibility towards the care.

    Be very careful about writing any letter stating who will take care of your child and how. It's very easy to be interpreted as giving up some part of responsibility. Personally I would forget any idea about that letter

    Just my opinion.
    Thank you very much for this Sir Terpe. I guess, we need to plan and consider your ideas and opinions about this issue.

    I just dont know whats the best thing to do as of the moment. My daughter doesnt want to come with me to the UK which gives me more of a hard time. Phew.


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