Buggered.

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Solicitor General - SOG, not sure why my asawa abbreviates it like that.

We don't know why they made the appeal. It's the second, the first was to the judge to rethink his decision, the second now is to the court of appeals.

How do these people think it is ok to toy with other people's lives? To deny them their free will to be with who they want to be? The Philippines are evil. Corrupt and evil.

[Terpe]

Solicitor General - SOG, not sure why my asawa abbreviates it like that.

We don't know why they made the appeal. It's the second, the first was to the judge to rethink his decision, the second now is to the court of appeals.

How do these people think it is ok to toy with other people's lives? To deny them their free will to be with who they want to be? The Philippines are evil. Corrupt and evil.

It does seem odd to have reached this point. As I mentioned maybe a technical point of law that isn't clear.

(Bit like UK right now with the ECHU dates for last appeal and deportation deadline)

Or does the ex have that degree of influence.

Can't really help with timeline. Sorry

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It does seem odd to have reached this point. As I mentioned maybe a technical point of law that isn't clear.

(Bit like UK right now with the ECHU dates for last appeal and deportation deadline)

Or does the ex have that degree of influence.

Can't really help with timeline. Sorry

Our annulment was quicker than usual (1.5 years instead of 2 - would have been 1 year had not 2 fiscals held up the case to extort some money from us), and it was mentioned that this may have led to a suspicion of corruption.

Another possibility is that a relative of the husband involved the OSG; His dad or uncle in the past mailed the court something (though I don't know details).

I hate how muddy this all is, nobody tells us what's going on. We thought we were in the clear, as we were told the judge had filed the verdict in February or early March, so the time for an appeal had run out. Turns out that it was only filed late March and the OSG waited until the last possible moment (like the first time) to make the appeal.


We are now exploring other options. F*ck the Philippines.

1) There is the possibility that my employer transfers me to Singapore, so she could come too, and we could live there together until she becomes an SG citizen, gets a divorce as in any civilized country, and we finally marry.

2) The other option is a work visa in the UK (or CH, I was just planning to move about thinking that all is in the clear now, and start a new life together in a long term job), stay and work long enough for a citizenship, divorce, marry. Problem with this approach is that the kid would probably have to stay behind which is something I want to avoid at pretty much all costs.

I promised the little one a snow ball fight 2 years ago, and now it seems he'll be in puberty before that can happen. He so wants to see snow and play in it... :(

Can maybe somebody advice regarding our two workarounds?