Good post (reputation sent) Marco

...I agree, the goverment are picking on the easy targets much like speed camaras...the easy route as always....I also agree that most British would not make putting the boot into spouses of British citizens ideal way of lowering immigration figures.
The rest of your post...we will have to agree to disagree
You said you didn't go into your relationship thinking whether you could afford it or not.
..I find that hard to believe...its like saying most folks thinking about having babies dont think about the financial side....we all gotta a right to have babies just has we all have a right to marry whom we chose without financial thought?.
....I dont think so...we all have a responsibility for our actions...morally at least.