thanks for that very informative--and quick-- reply Terpe: it does tie in with what i suspected. i know its not for many--but it could be the way to go for me--probably in 6 months time.
my lady is hoping to get a visitor visa to come here before then---i wonder whether we could then both travel--and stay--in an english speaking EEA country--to avoid the need for her to return to the philis.
as regards the costs--am i right in thinking the savings in the visa costs could go a fair way to paying for the stay in the EEA?
and the time saving could be considerable compared to the idea of us marrying--either here or in the philis--and then taking part in the spouse visa lottery.