im so fed up. he is accusing me for no reason.

[bigmarco]

Yesterday your boyfriend posted a thread about getting married next year and now you post this. If there's a problem with trust at this stage of the relationship then it doesn't bode well for the future.
When a foreigner asks you to marry them they are also asking you to make a lot of sacrifices so that you can be together in another country. So you really need to trust a man before making a decision like this. I don't think you really need anyone's advice on what to do here, your post says enough.
Good luck for the future.

[emcel]

Yesterday your boyfriend posted a thread about getting married next year and now you post this. If there's a problem with trust at this stage of the relationship then it doesn't bode well for the future.
When a foreigner asks you to marry them they are also asking you to make a lot of sacrifices so that you can be together in another country. So you really need to trust a man before making a decision like this. I don't think you really need anyone's advice on what to do here, your post says enough.
Good luck for the future.

Thank you guys!
yesterday yes he posted here and he was so happy while we talking at night, because of the motivation of what you give to him about P.I.

before he post here, we have a final re fix about relationship, that he feel shame about what attitudes he is showing to me and to my family because of the facebook freak comment.

he did this not only once and repeat and repeat again and again until he make promises not to be paranoid it facebook, until the last time saturday he was so panicking again because of the facebook comment of what he is doing translation in google or any website.

then until he make a rule not to use facebook until we both online, and see his feed on his facebook.

so lastnigt i slept until 2am, he was crying because he was so very happy and he feel lucky because the feed back on this forum are positive thoughts about Philippines,

and then today he rang me today he log on my facebook while my sleeping time on phil, then he said he is not happy because he translate well and get the sentence exactly about translator, he insist the bad words than that i understand on my language,

e.i tau=tayo
sau=sayo and etc etc. all comments on facebook are shortcut text,

i explained very cleary, the conversation before, and now he still insisting the knowledge of what his doing on translator,

i gave a lots of chances to him, even my families,to understand him,
8 months straight conversation i spent a lots time and focus,
i have also offers job abroad but i decide to wait him until, he come in philppines,

but to realize this all, how can be together in reality? if only facebook one he got insecurities peoples around me? what if in future, will happen this,

yes i love him still until now, but if he willing to go here i am going to face it, and to show me that he is really love me,

thank you so much y'all...