This situation be a lesson to those who wants to marry a foreigner....don't rush things into marriage. Internet love affair is far more different when you are together. Most often than not westerner jump to marry their filipino gf's after only a few months of knowing them online then marry the first they met simply b'coz they believe they are in love. Personally i dont believe in love at first sight...infatuation yes but love no. That takes time, effort and the willingness to be with that person no matter what. And thats what u call acceptance. Love is a choice...simple as that.