Searching for a genuine filipina girl

[Ako Si Jamie]

I think most woman in this world are attracted to wealth.
Let's face it most paupers are not going to make good husbands.

You sound a bit defeatist there, LM.

Not all women are materialistic, some see a man's loyalty for instance as a form of wealth.

At the end of the day there is somebody out there for everyone and you need to install a positive belief into your mind that someday you will find her.

[stevewool]

Not all women are materialistic, some see a man's loyalty for instance as a form of wealth.

Well said Jamie

[Arthur Little]

Not all women are materialistic, some see a man's loyalty for instance as a form of wealth.

Jamie ..................................... 's CERTAINLY what matters most to Myrna ... and !

[London_Manila]

You sound a bit defeatist there, LM.

Not all women are materialistic, some see a man's loyalty for instance as a form of wealth.

At the end of the day there is somebody out there for everyone and you need to install a positive belief into your mind that someday you will find her.

Actually I have a very good standard of living here in London and my house is paid off already

I will never get married again because I want my property to remain mine

Getting married and purchasing houses or lots in the Philippines is for the loved-up lot who think things will never go wrong. If it does you only have yourself to blame

I will probably end up living with a Filipina in the Philippines in rented accommodation of course

Marriage or bringing someone to the Uk will never be in my plans

[Michael Parnham]

Actually I have a very good standard of living here in London and my house is paid off already
I will never get married again because I want my property to remain mine

Getting married and purchasing houses or lots in the Philippines is for the loved-up lot who think things will never go wrong. If it does you only have yourself to blame

I will probably end up living with a Filipina in the Philippines in rented accommodation of course

Marriage or bringing someone to the UK will never be in my plans

I'm very surprised that you said that!

[Iani]

I'm very surprised that you said that!

I'm not particularly. I'll make a guess the guy isn't in a relationship. and make a guess (without trawling back through his posts) he's either divorced or has friends who are and whose ex's have walked out and taken everything leaving him stood in his underwear.

Your opinion often changes a lot when you meet "the one", but whilst your single, that mindset from being stung in the past is very strong.

[London_Manila]

I'm very surprised that you said that!

Seen too many guys taken to the cleaners by x wives
They fall madly in love with some woman and bring her to the Uk
After a few years of marriage she clears off with someone else taking half of the guy's hard earned wealth with her

I am just protecting myself from the worst case scenario and loved up guys seem to lose all sense of reality

"It will never happen to me" and "my wife is not like that"

[Michael Parnham]

Seen too many guys taken to the cleaners by x wives
They fall madly in love with some woman and bring her to the Uk
After a few years of marriage she clears off with someone else taking half of the guys hard earned wealth with her

I am just protecting myself from the worst case scenario and loved up guys seem to lose all sense of reality

"It will never happen to me" and "my wife is not like that"

Be aware it can happen to anyone, it's no use going through life distrusting every woman that comes into your life!

[London_Manila]

Be aware it can happen to anyone, it's no use going through life distrusting every woman that comes into your life!

Yes thats true but you can do many things to protect yourself for future events
Not getting married and not purchasing any land or accommodation overseas are 2 that spring to mind
With 2 out of 3 marriages ending in divorce i would say the stakes are pretty high!

I have worked hard all my life for what i have got and i am not about to let any x wife get her hands on it

[Pete/London]

I have worked hard all my life for what i have got and i am not about to let any x wife get her hands on it

I agree with some of what you say but sometimes you have to share. I would never buy anything I did not have full rights of ownership to. We have been married for 25 years and have 2 grown up children and if we did decide to divorce I would expect her to walk away with half our assets, even though I owned my house before we met.
If I wanted to fight over it I am not sure how successful I would be but the kids would get it in the end anyway.
If your marriage was going pear shaped I suppose you could always remortgage and run off with the money.

[grahamw48]

Seen too many guys taken to the cleaners by x wives
They fall madly in love with some woman and bring her to the Uk
After a few years of marriage she clears off with someone else taking half of the guys hard earned wealth with her

I am just protecting myself from the worst case scenario and loved up guys seem to lose all sense of reality

"It will never happen to me" and "my wife is not like that"

Yep, exactly as happened to me.

[Ako Si Jamie]

I will probably end up living with a Filipina in the Philippines in rented accommodation of course

Marriage or bringing someone to the UK will never be in my plans

When I split with Maria, I said to myself, if I was to meet another Pinay abroad I'd either live with her in the Philippines for two years or regularly visit her for a minimum of five years, before thinking of marriage.

[Terpe]

I will never get married again.....

I said that too.
Kept to it for many years.
Then one day out of the blue it all changed.

I'm happy but I'll never marry again ...whatever