Just because people like Graham are now in happy relationships doesn't mean this has always been the case. I would imagine most people have gone through a bad relationship at some point in their life even if it was brief so you're not alone, Jack. The secret is to learn from your mistakes. Who knows? Before long, you could meet someone wonderful but you will need to put this experience behind you and not dwell on it or give off any negativity because women will pick up on it. Also, don't feel guilty about anything you've done here.