annoying brothers......they are freaking me out!!!

[mhynne]

hi there allyn
im really sorry about your problem.. its really a hard situation to get into... I can imagine..
i just want to say that yes it is quite unfair for his brothers to disrespect you.. and i think that really should be put on straight..
but also i just wanted to say that i dont think your husband is putting you second to them.. I think he is just as torn as you are.. lets also try to understand the husband that he also loves his family and his brothers... and that if it was also you, asking for help from him bec one of your family member is in trouble.. im sure he wouldnt mind helping.. try to work this out with your husband.. but i suggest compromise..

[allyn]

hi there allyn
im really sorry about your problem.. its really a hard situation to get into... I can imagine..
i just want to say that yes it is quite unfair for his brothers to disrespect you.. and i think that really should be put on straight..
but also i just wanted to say that i dont think your husband is putting you second to them.. I think he is just as torn as you are.. lets also try to understand the husband that he also loves his family and his brothers... and that if it was also you, asking for help from him bec one of your family member is in trouble.. im sure he wouldnt mind helping.. try to work this out with your husband.. but i suggest compromise..

nice said...you know your right and you have point...
well, i tried to be in my husband shoes, and tried to understand his brother situation..i agree of my brother inlaw in staying with us coz i understand his situation...i just react on the way they disrespect me....
i know and i feel that my husband love me...but theres lots of actions and words been said that give proof that im not his 1st priority...
i know how much he love he's family and im not trying to ruin those love and his relationship with them...
all i wanted is my own peaceful family, for me to be able to treated and respected as a wife..
they were able to respect their younger brother (19 yrs old) relationship with his girlfriend by respecting the girl why cant they respect me and my marriage to my husband? i dont remember doing bad things to them to do that to me...i tolerate on whatever they said to me and do before...i just dont think i deserve it...i have no one to run to except my husband...he's the only one i have here, so i run to him, but most of the time im just being hush......
dont worry i already compromise...
i now keep my thoughts and pain to my self what ever they do...
i just post this rant of mine here coz i just want somewhere to release my irritation...
my husband is not hearing any complaint from me anymore...

[aromulus]

hi there allyn
try to work this out with your husband.. but i suggest compromise..

In my mind there is no compromise...

They are out.

The husband has no respect for the wife, if he allows his sieblings to run riot all over the place.

[ervenescence]

I feel sorry for the wife, seems like no one can protect her in her hubbys world, not even her husband. Shame!
It is a torture for her not physically but mentally and phsycologically.