<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(manila bound &#064; Jun 9 2006, 03&#58;05 PM) Quoted post</div><div class='quotemain'>
First of all, apologies for that post, rough day at work and all. [img]style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/Doh.gif[/img]

My first post mearly shows what I have to pay &#39;at the moment&#39; for my own &#39;keep&#39;, I am fully aware that in &#39;real life&#39; things are very different... You&#39;ve made an assumption and jumped on it.

Since late 2004, most of my money has been spent supporting my gf, helping with their rent, the costs of visiting the Philippines etc... so I am aware of how expensive things can be, I am under no illusion that all I&#39;ll need is to pay an extra £20 a week once she is here&#33;&#33;&#33; [img]style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/blink.gif[/img]

I dont see anything wrong with waiting till my gf is settled here before finding a place for us to live if my parents, gf and myself are happy with the situation&#33;
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ok Manila bound I hear you, we all have crappy days at work, tell me about it, no problem, I congratulate you regarding sending sustento for your Girl and her family, that is very responsible of you, I dont see anything wrong with staying at your parents, etc, before doing this, maybe I got the wrong end of it as well, hope that works well, what stage are you at with the visa etc, or have you married as yet ?

Best wishes

Pete