he needs to go and see her, simple as that, not everyone is a scammer,
everyone is different, i was chatting to the misses for near 3yrs b4 i went to see her,, we've been married near 6 yrs now,
if i listened to people on here we would have never meet or got married... i understand that in many cases it will not work out for everyone on here as it has for us..,
just becuase he sent her money doesn't mean it will not work out or shes a scammer..
good luck ..