life....

[jbt]

hi sis maria,

maybe its about time for you and your husband to go on a holiday, somewhere romantic, where both of you can really talk (heart to heart)and rekindle the romance...

[PAT]

hi sis maria,

maybe its about time for you and your husband to go on a holiday, somewhere romantic, where both of you can really talk (heart to heart)and rekindle the romance...

[maria_and_matt]

hi sis maria,

maybe its about time for you and your husband to go on a holiday, somewhere romantic, where both of you can really talk (heart to heart)and rekindle the romance...

his work sched don't permit us to go away at present, we only go away xmas, easter and back home for 4 to 5 weeks in august.

[IainBusby]

his work sched don't permit us to go away at present, we only go away xmas, easter and back home for 4 to 5 weeks in august.

ONLY, My god, I wish I could afford to go away for a holiday at xmas, easter and 4 or 5 weeks in phils every year. I also wish I could afford to change my car, now nearly 4 yrs old, at least once a year. I could afford it if I took the money from my savings, but my wife would see it as pure extravagance. You just can't see how really lucky you are.
Iain.

[maria_and_matt]

ONLY, My god, I wish I could afford to go away for a holiday at xmas, easter and 4 or 5 weeks in phils every year. I also wish I could afford to change my car, now nearly 4 yrs old, at least once a year. I could afford it if I took the money from my savings, but my wife would see it as pure extravagance. You just can't see how really lucky you are.
Iain.

i can honestly say that material things don't matter match, i just want our relationship to get back on track. i can live without holidays, money or cars. i just want my husband to be more involved in our relationship not just be a provider. and i do know i am lucky to have him, but as i said before life is not all about money.

[IainBusby]

i can honestly say that material things don't matter match, i just want our relationship to get back on track. i can live without holidays, money or cars. i just want my husband to be more involved in our relationship not just be a provider. and i do know i am lucky to have him, but as i said before life is not all about money.

I very glad to hear that. As the old saying goes, count your blessings and when things are not going so well, count them all up very carefully. Life is never perfect, not for anyone.
Iain.

[pennybarry]

i can honestly say that material things don't matter match, i just want our relationship to get back on track. i can live without holidays, money or cars. i just want my husband to be more involved in our relationship not just be a provider. and i do know i am lucky to have him, but as i said before life is not all about money.

I met a lot of filipinas with much boring life than yours! I also met a young chinese girl who is married to Brit. I asked her if she was ready when she gave birth for her 4 month old son. She said NO, I was not ready and feel boring now she said. So please be thankful for that. Try some reverse psychology too. I feel boring if my hubby plays his PS3. Then I'll take a shower and later tell him I'll go to my friend house. He will say OK but in few minutes he will pick me up and ask me where I want to go. If I feel unwanted, I trully tell him I NEED A HUG, I WANT SWEET NOTHINGS! I'LL START telling funny stories, scracth/ massage his back, and he will turn his attention to me

Try making friends too. But choose the genuine one. I had 2 in our place and if she feels boring I'm always there if I have really time. Real friends will always make you feel happy

[maria_and_matt]

I met a lot of filipinas with much boring life than yours! I also met a young chinese girl who is married to Brit. I asked her if she was ready when she gave birth for her 4 month old son. She said NO, I was not ready and feel boring now she said. So please be thankful for that. Try some reverse psychology too. I feel boring if my hubby plays his PS3. Then I'll take a shower and later tell him I'll go to my friend house. He will say OK but in few minutes he will pick me up and ask me where I want to go. If I feel unwanted, I trully tell him I NEED A HUG, I WANT SWEET NOTHINGS! I'LL START telling funny stories, scracth/ massage his back, and he will turn his attention to me

Try making friends too. But choose the genuine one. I had 2 in our place and if she feels boring I'm always there if I have really time. Real friends will always make you feel happy

i have lots of friends. i go out out alot with them.
i agree real friends makes me happy but what happen when i have to go home. it is not boredom i feel, its lonliness.

[jbt]

his work sched don't permit us to go away at present, we only go away xmas, easter and back home for 4 to 5 weeks in august.

wow, sis, i think it's more than enough (in terms of going away), i wish we can afford to go on holiday more than once.

anyway, another couple of months and xmas is here and whatever holiday destination you both choose, i hope you'll be able to talk to your husband about what you really feel.

you mentioned earlier, the problem (you think) lies w/you, you're not happy, but what will make you happy? maybe a job or as boss keith mentioned start a business, something that you can do at home maybe....or maybe a part time job...you really need to sit down with your husband sis, discuss what you truly feel, ask what he truly feels and maybe you both can do something about it....you have to do it asap before it becomes a major issue.