Ephesians 5:25
"Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her. . ."
So God commanded men to love in the same way that Jesus loved us. This would assure the woman that she could not be abused in any way and would make it very easy to submit to him.
So what does Jesus' behavior have to do with being a good submissive wife to your husband? Jesus is the spiritual wife in this relationship and he submitted his will unto the Father and trusted him to execute the plan that they both discussed before the Creation was formed. Should not wives be doing the same? The only reason that a wife would not is if she is being mistreated, abused or betrayed. God condemns treachery and that was how Jesus was treated when he was given over to the Sanhedrin and for that matter by us who have been the ones who were guilty of disobedience in the first place.
"If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men." (Romans 12:18)
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Thank u for all ur replies. I know its kind of awkward to know did they live in one roof. He asked me about it and i said yes coz we wasnt married yet that time and she become a friend of mine online that i asked her what is his favorite food and their daughter so i could cook it when they come here, but after we got married i asked him to tell her she cant stay there anymore but he is worried about their daughter that will get upset and if my husband would move to her mom we cant talk online everyday and i dont want that so i agreed. I wasnt jealous over her that time and i was thinking to make her daughter happy as well. Just recently that if he will ask me something about his ex i will still yes even i am jelous already coz i am considering his daughter`s feelings and he always say his daughter might get upset. Well his daughter is 15 years old and was just thinking that she could visit her mom instead her mom would visit her at his house so i wont be jelous anymore.
Well i guess ive done my part to please his daughter and him and even his ex as well so i asked now that she moved its time to start to live a normal life without her but when i asked is it ok if ur ex wont come to ur house anymore when i am there already still he said no i cant stop her to come here coz my daughter will get upset.
I just feel bad that he said she has greater personality than i am when i think i was been understanding too specially when it comes to his daughter and i did feel why i alwasy consider their feelings how about mine. But we are okay now. We talked yesterday afternoon and i said sorry for being so childish and insecure. He is just glad that i am back to my normal self lol and just asked me to stop using pill coz he think that i am experiencing depression with that pill that i get annoyed easily this past few days. But we are happy now again and i learned my lessons and stop this childish game. Thank you
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