Children or No Children

[joebloggs]

I'd been to my doctor a week ago for some check ups and some questions about me planning a baby soon (hopefully) well, as some of you know that I am not young anymore turning 37 anytime soon at my age now i am on the risk of whatever then my bf now is 46 y/o so both of us are not young anymore so having a baby is always a risk. There's a chance of we might have not a normal baby etc while my doctor telling that to me i am really scared and a bit depressed about it but of course she said that if ever i got pregnant there's a way now to know if the baby is normal or not.

my misses has just turned 38, little joe is now 2 1/2

life is a risk, everyday you're taking risks. but you have to get on a live your life

good luck

[Jay&Zobel]

My grandmother used to say if a family is a house then kids are the cement that binds the bricks together
As for selling babies Jay,I actually know someone who bought a child in Pinas,and saw the news report three weeks ago on Pinoy TV about a couple who had just had their baby stolen,apparently its a thriving underground market

Hehehehee... Zobel here talking lol... My Jay rarely posts (he isn't very keen on forums hehe)

My mum owns a Preschool in our village (My youngest sister & I went to that school) and it's been open since then... I love kids a lot so I managed to take a short term course in Preschool Education. I love spending time with them. They are just brilliant.

My mum will always tell us, being with youngsters make you feel young at heart, you forget your everyday worries...
Their cries are music to ones ears, what more with their laughters...
If laughter is the best medicine... Laugh with a child...

im surprised the topic is open again of course i know that some of the members here are expectant mothers and some already gave brith. My congrats to all.

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Thanks cheesewiz, I was one of those who have just recently gave birth...

I'd been to my doctor a week ago for some check ups and some questions about me planning a baby soon (hopefully) well, as some of you know that I am not young anymore turning 37 anytime soon at my age now i am on the risk of whatever then my bf now is 46 y/o so both of us are not young anymore so having a baby is always a risk. There's a chance of we might have not a normal baby etc while my doctor telling that to me i am really scared and a bit depressed about it but of course she said that if ever i got pregnant there's a way now to know if the baby is normal or not. To be honest i don't think I can't bear if im going to have a special need baby.

So, I open that conversation with my bf and he said that he himself dont want to have a child that need special care or attention. He wants to have a child that you can speak and interact in a normal way. Abortion are the option for many people that are not willing to look after a special children. I don't think I can't do that but I am not willing to devote all my time and effort to a child that need special care and attention (may be i am selfish on that aspect)

I know that having a child makes my life complete no doubt about it. I am not being negative here I am just sharing what might the possibilities of my age having a child in the near future.

Still looking forward having my own child (one is enough for me).

You ain't selfish my dear... You are just being sensible and responsible... Let's pray for the best

I think my advice for some here is while you and your partner still young you should think about having a family asap.

IF AND ONLY IF both parties are responsible and READY to commit of having a family...

my misses has just turned 38, little joe is now 2 1/2

life is a risk, everyday you're taking risks. but you have to get on a live your life

good luck

That's the joy of living...