Quote Originally Posted by maria_and_matt View Post
I want him to have a social life, I think it is my fault that he prefers it here at home. I kinda scared him about all the bad things that may happen at night ... I wish that i have didnt overdo the bad things and i also told him about all the fun he could be having with his friends
My nephew is mestizo,he is 16 now,he has had countless girlfriends if thats what you call a social life He has also smoked marijuana Been arrested truthfully maybe 8 or 10 times he lives in a great area,except the graffitti you normally see is his "TAG" I think your son sounds just fine,I used to be a wild kid,trust me,they are a load of heartache and pain,your boy is a home-body,absolutely nothing wrong with that,he will find his feet in his own good time,he just isnt bugoy One day he will come home with a shy girl "Mum,this is karen or alison or julia or whatever her name is" thats when your worries should really begin Give him time,childhood is precious,some of us didnt appreciate it,let him enjoy the innocence while it lasts If you really want him to get out of the house find out his interests,enroll him in an evening class for something as a surprise