i think i am going to get some negative rep on this onYou got broad shoulders Dave,and skin thicker than an elephant,I think it would take more than a red blob to make you lose sleep
The good thing is we are both realists.
i think i am going to get some negative rep on this onYou got broad shoulders Dave,and skin thicker than an elephant,I think it would take more than a red blob to make you lose sleep
The good thing is we are both realists.
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
you know me i say it as i have found it
i totaly agree about your other comments usas fat middle aged
bald gits
can have a pilipina dream girl its like going in a candy shop or as another old wag said theres a FRESH CROP TO PICK FROM EVERY YEAR
so dont get married
my opion is based on what you said i learnt a long time ago i dont need to put up with a frumpy fat pungit women of my own age who have no respect for there husbands when i can collect then select from the pilippines I HAVE MY DREAM GIRLSADLY MANY NEVER FIND ONE
some input from the young pilipinas would be nice if you are between 20-30 and have an older husband 40-70 give us your view
why did you pick an old foregneri already know my wifes answer
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There once was a girl that believed in mankind, that there was still honor and chivalry that existed in everyone of us. She also believed that everyone deserves a chance to prove oneself individually and hoped that the courtesy would be returned. That girl is dead now, and all that is left is her shadow. To give one a chance to prove thyself is a chance for you to become dwindled in the dissappointment.
True storyFlorge theres a lady living in Davao,good family,got a house not far from Marco Polo,educated and the family have a thriving large hardware store in Davao city,she has a late 50's american boyfriend,and she is in her 20's,her mum doesnt like the guy as he wanted an open relationship...blah....blah....blah anyway her mum made me a great meal and I chatted to the daughter,the age gap isnt my concern,the family are friends but she told me she liked older guys,they are more reliable,more romantic etc.I pointed out 3 seperate guys in the street,all pinoys who I judged to be 50+ and asked her did she find them attractive "No Way" then I realised something,its not older guys some ladies find attractive,its older WESTERN guys,if all pinays found older guys attractive as they say how come they dont marry older pinoy guys
Western is the key word.
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
It's the same when you see Peter Stringfellow with a young 20 year old model walking around with him. Now if Peter Stringfellow was a bus driver, he would be known as Peter "lives with his mum" StringfellowOk, making that a little extreme maybe. But the ability to provide a safe, secure home is something a woman wants. And for us westerners, we are like Peter Stringfellow! We are the millionaire! We can change a life overnight and provide help for a poor family that no other local man could provide! We provide security and the knowledge that any children will be well looked after and grow and go onto better things...
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Amen,and thats a perfect analogy with PS![]()
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
I think I may have mentioned the following in a previous thread a long time ago but.......
When I got married to my wife, I asked her why she liked me, an older man.
She told me she didn't like "chexboys" (playboys) and I understood that.
I later said that I was so happy to have married her as her life would change so much because of us meeting and marrying.
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She told me she married for love and not for money and I felt so stupid for saying the things I had said.
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Northerner, just a spot of advice.........be very careful of what you say when you meet your girlfriend.
You may get more than you expected.
I gave you positive rep Dave because your a cheeky &*)(%^$But its true,at least we both know certain things are unwritten
But your right,I am middle-aged,but I aint fat nor Bald,might be a git though
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Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
In someways, I'm interested to know myself, why I have gone down this route, flown halfway around the world several times, next time to get married....I'm only going to say I'm glad I have.
Surely we all strive for something better, for something that suits who we are...Yes sure I've seen one or two ridiculous sites, when I've been in Pinas, but hey, that's life....we all make judgements, all got an opinion.
I agree with many points raised in this thread, on all sides....we spotted a, for want of a better word, an "opportunity" (that sounds awful, I really don't mean that) and ran with it.
If the internet hadnt been invented, non of our lives would have crossed, I definately wouldn't be pursuing the love of my life, if it was just down to writing a few letters a month & waiting for the postman to arrive.
I know I'm happy...so there you go.![]()
Marriage breake-ups a western thing Apo?You really think so?I wonder how many women on this site had pinoy partners previouslyThats what I said originally,its not a Pinay thing,its not a puti thing,its a "Human" thing,we are all individuals,marrying a pinay or a brazilian or an eskimo wont guarantee you a faithfull wife,a good samba dancer nor fresh whale blubber for tea each night,stereotypes have a hint of truth,but we are still individuals
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Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
Look at the english ladies stories on here also "My boyfriend has kids in the Philippines........." blanket statements arent rooted in fact,it would have been better to say its EASIER to get a divorce in western society,we dont have the expense they do in pinas,but its just as prevalent,seen it often enough,look on a pinay dating website,see how many women have kids from a previous partner,thousands of themTill death us do part isnt the mantra of every single pinay,doesnt happen that way,thats what I am saying about stereotypes
Besides,many ladies in Pinas would leave their husband but because they dont have the support network we do,they dont have the social welfare system that would house feed and cloth their children like we do they are forced to stay with the guy and endure years of misery,abuse,and general unhappiness till death us do part,then and only then do they get their peace.
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
I can see you don't like generalisations and, to a certain extent I can understand why you don't.
However, I am sure you would understand the many Surveyors and Technicians that I used to work with who love Filipinas more than any other ladies from any other country.
It is just a "given" to them, and now having married a Filipina too, I can now understand why they all told me they had never looked back.
I have already given you the reason why,most pinays dont have 200K pesos for an annulment,and lots of them suffer in silenceThey have no finance nor family support so cannot leave their husband but like I said,have a look on this site itself for ladies,and english women connected to pinoy guys,who were in previous marriages.
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
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