Thank you all for your reply, i really appreciate it. At least i now have peace of mind. So i will now focus on our visa application. My husband hired and had paid in full to an agency in cebu to facilitate the process of our visa. I hope and pray everything will turn out okay. There are many requirements but we're almost done except for the letter that needs to be mailed and posted. We email everyday but the agency we hired asked us to write each other letters and mail to each other. I wonder if this is really necessary and i wonder if the embassy will really require us to write each other through posted mail?? But we're already married? Just a little skeptical about it....