Its like bird watching,the more you study our feathered friends the more you find out about their habitat,their habits and characteristics I have known quite a few women who started out quiet,demure,shy Once they are abroad and their family ties are cast off they become totally different people with a whole new persona Not all of them but enough so its noticeable Better not sat this too loudly but I always suspected one or two might have married their guys just to get out of pinas,the love faded and whithered like an unnurtured flower The more you mingle with various groups the more you learn eye opening things,I have met one or two who admitted to being with their husbands for companionship