Winnie,
I'm truly sorry to learn of your disappointment. I, for one, would have thought it SHOULD'VE been obvious to the Embassy people that the MAIN reason for the depletion in Warren's finances had been due to the sheer costs incurred in the number of times he'd visited you ... i.e. flights, accommodation and everything else involved. To me, these things in themselves, are a clear indication of the strength of your relationship and, frankly, I'm surprised that the ECO appears to have been less than sympathetic in this respect.
But, as an "incurable romantic"
THAT is only MY personal opinion. Realisically, I suppose, it's 'all down to money' [or the apparent lack of it] in the eyes of the British Embassy. And so, in the circumstances, it would be wise to stay tuned to the forum and be directed by the wise counsel already given ... and which you will continue to receive ... on here, as regards your next step.
Whether you decide to appeal against the decision, or start afresh will, at the end of the day, be up to the two of you. So, for the moment, it would seem that Warren would do well to concentrate on ensuring his account is no longer overdrawn and also on building up his savings to at least £2k.
In common with everyone else on this site, I wish I could wave a magic wand
to resolve situations like yours. Many of us have 'travelled the same road', so all is not lost. Always know that you are among friends here, and we will do our utmost to guide you wherever - and whenever - possible.
Good Luck!
Originally Posted by Arthur Little
and for using our real names
that made me smile.
babykins
