Pressured for a quick marriage...

[pacificelectric]

We just had a discussion and she said that sometimes she feels pressure from her office mates and friends, a Filipino attitude she calls "paki-alamero"... still I convinced her to follow the schedule we discussed already and made up again.....

[bornatbirth]

We just had a discussion and she said that sometimes she feels pressure from her office mates and friends, a Filipino attitude she calls "paki-alamero"... still I convinced her to follow the schedule we discussed already and made up again.....

you kissed and made up

you will find yourself with lots of these problems,instead of getting mad at her....try to think whats going on in her mind and understand the way shes thinking.

its always best to talk any problems through,it saves you both getting mad at each other

[aposhark]

:.........try to think whats going on in her mind and understand the way shes thinking......

My Mother once told me "don't try to understand a woman because we don't understand ourselves."

My Dad told me "Women can buy and sell men (meaning they are superior) - just be there to offer support when they need it, and always listen"

My Sister says "Marriage - God's biggest joke"

There must be a lesson in there.
Me? I try to listen but I get confused sometimes
As I am not religious, I try to ignore the mad moments and really enjoy the sane ones

I think if a man tries to understand a woman all of the time, he will drive himself nuts.
I have to shut myself out of chismis and gossip, I tell my wife that I have a small brain and that all of that stuff is too much for me.

[Tawi2]

Paki alamero means meddling in other peoples afffairs Tell her officemates and friends are transient,they come and go throughout life,remind her a husband is a constant,a permanent fixture in a womans life,but only if he is treated right