More on Jennifer and Michaels marrage problems

[justchecking]

good luck Mick - its difficult to trust again, you're a strong man, hope its worth it

[September]

Hi Mick,
Irightly or wrongly, that she's only returned because once she got back to Phils, she found the gravy train had already left town.



I really hope that there are things that I just don't quite understand about your relationship and I hope also that in the long run I'm completely wrong in everything I've said in this post.

Cheers,

Iain.

I think of that,when she go back to phil and you didnt giv anymore money, find her difficult to live again, I hate to say this..but I dont trust her

But its your decision Mick, all we can do wish you all the best ..

[pennybarry]

Is love really understanding and kind?
Is love doesn't keep any record of wrong?
Is love conquers all? Is she's the last woman on earth for you?
True or not, at your age and being retired, all you need is enjoyment of life.
We are concerned about you Mick!
You are the only one who can feel if she's the right woman for you.
I would like to see you happy like other retired/pensioners here.

[mickcant]

Is love really understanding and kind?
Is love doesn't keep any record of wrong?
Is love conquers all? Is she's the last woman on earth for you?
True or not, at your age and being retired, all you need is enjoyment of life.
We are concerned about you Mick!
You are the only one who can feel if she's the right woman for you.
I would like to see you happy like other retired/pensioners here.

Thank you Penny,
I really do feel we have to try, and things are a lot better at the moment.
Mick.

[mickcant]

Hi all, I am trying toattch two photos of Jennifer in the snow, I have used the add button.
Hope they show up.
mick.

[pennybarry]

Hi all, I am trying toattch two photos of Jennifer in the snow, I have used the add button.
Hope they show up.
mick.

Well, she looks beautiful and fashionable one.

[maria_and_matt]

Hi all, I am trying toattch two photos of Jennifer in the snow, I have used the add button.
Hope they show up.
mick.

at least now she is smiling

[English Rose]

... With respect, if I might correct you *here ... Mick's wife's visa was, I believe, approved towards the end of last August, and she came to the UK on September 29, 2009. Which means its 27 months' validity won't be due to expire until November 2011. Therefore, since she cannot apply for permanent residence [ILR] before August NEXT year, I don't think the motive that you suggest for her returning is likely to have any bearing on the situation as it stands.

Thanks for correcting me. She could still be playing the long game, though. With patience, she could set herself up nicely as a resident of the UK with all the benefits that entails.

[IainBusby]

Thanks for correcting me. She could still be playing the long game, though. With patience, she could set herself up nicely as a resident of the UK with all the benefits that entails.

You could be right, but if Mick is prepared to give her the benefit of the doubt only time will tell. Personally, after what has gone on, if I were in Mick's shoes I would at least be trying to take some steps to protect my interests financially and with regard to property etc.

Iain.

[aromulus]

if I were in Mick's shoes I would at least be trying to take some steps to protect my interests financially and with regard to property etc.

Iain.

One or two sugars in your Hemlock, Mick...???

[September]

Well, she looks beautiful and fashionable one.

With the help of Mick

[mickcant]

You could be right, but if Mick is prepared to give her the benefit of the doubt only time will tell. Personally, after what has gone on, if I were in Mick's shoes I would at least be trying to take some steps to protect my interests financially and with regard to property etc.

Iain.

Hi Iain,
There really is nothing left to protect!
We live in a Housing Association Sheltered Home, it is a nice ground floor flat in a block of only 4 flats, they are well insulated and we get no problems with noise, and get on well with the other residents.
As it is sheltered housing, Jennifer cannot become a joint tenant, nor could she in any futcher martial dispute get me out, as I am the tenant, if I die she will have to move from the flat, this does not mean she would be made homeless but nobody can be a tenant here until they are 55 or disabled, and Jenn is 29.
As for finances I do still have some savings but not much, in an account in my name only, she cannot access it.
I have told her we need that for the next stage in her settlement plan in 2 years time.
Things do seem to be better this time, but only time will tell, I do hope it continues to get better.
To be honest, if this relationship does fail, I could not afford to start again with another woman after paying for a divorce, nor do I think would I want to.
So my only hope of being happily settled is with Jennifer, and yes I do want it to work.
I have had mixed reaction from my family (siblings) but both my sons have given us their blessing; one of them also has a Filipina partner.

Thanks Mick.

[liane]

I wish you all the best of luck Mick. I hope her reasons for coming back to you are genuine, no ulterior motives.
Just be very careful and I hope this time she better be good to you. You've done too many things to make her happy and have a comfortable life. I wish she knows how to appreciate you with all of these.
I wish you luck in your happiness.

[fred]

Mick..Is she still sending your money to P.I?? Does she work? Is she sending her own cash perhaps?

Regards,
Fred.

[Ladybug_sim]

I’m just got a read now for the new update with your wifey, we followed your story and frustration, disappointment .. etc. I agreed for them too but still glad to hear that you made a decision for having your wife again… I know it is hard and not too easy but I salute the way you work your marriages now even for what the heartache she gives to you still you stand on it. You’re a truely and a very strong man… we only hope and pray that it is the last things she can do for you and I hope she do the right things too as your wife and built a happy family… she is too young still and her mind still looking something that she feel happy and make her satisfied.. I know you learn lots of things in your heart just don’t give all the trust and love again for her because it is really hard to stand again when you fall but always remember that life still keep going on and for wanting the completeness of our life we under go for all trials where we can surive or not ...time really so fast to come... you are the one who knows things just hoping it is working last forever and we wish you good luck Mr. Mickcant, this year and the years to come…

[MarBell379]

Good luck to you Mick.
Its easy to draw the conclusions that so many people seem to have come to here, but you're the man on the frontline that sees the whole picture and not just piecing together the bits fromn threads here.
As always, my advice is to be cautious, but not paranoid.
There are plenty of ways to keep an eye on people, including software to track computer usage. (I've worked in the IT industry for alooong time so if you need any info drop me a line).

Good luck - I hope to hear positive news from you for a long time to come

[MarBell379]

Good luck to you Mick.
Its easy to draw the conclusions that so many people seem to have come to here, but you're the man on the frontline that sees the whole picture and not just piecing together the bits fromn threads here.
As always, my advice is to be cautious, but not paranoid.
There are plenty of ways to keep an eye on people, including software to track computer usage. (I've worked in the IT industry for alooong time so if you need any info drop me a line).

Good luck - I hope to hear positive news from you for a long time to come

[Arthur Little]

Good luck to you Mick.

I hope to hear positive news from you for a long time to come

Hear, hear!! ...

[mickcant]

Mick..Is she still sending your money to P.I?? Does she work? Is she sending her own cash perhaps?

Regards,
Fred.

Hi Fred.
We have not sent any money as yet since she returned, there will be some I am sure.
She does not work yet, we have applied for a National Insurance number, but they send a pack, then call her for an interview.

Does anyone know if some employers might let her start work before she has a Number?

She would if possible like to be a "carer" in a nursing home.
Thanks Mick.

[September]

Mick..Is she still sending your money to P.I?? Does she work? Is she sending her own cash perhaps?

Regards,
Fred.

Mick, I hope you dont mind asking, we are all adult and can be nosey sometimes, you told us before she dont let you make love to her, what about now ? is everything great ?

[pumpkins]

Mick, I hope you dont mind asking, we are all adult and can be nosey sometimes, you told us before she dont let you make love to her, what about now ? is everything great ?

i am curious too..

i wish you all the best mick..
Goodluck to you both

[Arthur Little]

you told us before she dont let you make love to her, what about now ? is everything great ?

[COLOR="DarkRed"]i am curious too..

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Now then, ladies ... ahem!!

[darren-b]

Hi Fred.
We have not sent any money as yet since she returned, there will be some I am sure.
She does not work yet, we have applied for a National Insurance number, but they send a pack, then call her for an interview.

Does anyone know if some employers might let her start work before she has a Number?

She would if possible like to be a "carer" in a nursing home.
Thanks Mick.

No problem at all in starting work prior to getting an NI number.

[pennybarry]

Mick, I hope you dont mind asking, we are all adult and can be nosey sometimes, you told us before she dont let you make love to her, what about now ? is everything great ?

i am curious too..

i wish you all the best mick..
Goodluck to you both

I am nosey to you both.
How great are you? I need more orientations.



Mick can do it. Yes he can !

[bornatbirth]

Mick, I hope you dont mind asking, we are all adult and can be nosey sometimes, you told us before she dont let you make love to her, what about now ? is everything great ?

i am curious too..

i wish you all the best mick..
Goodluck to you both

I am nosey to you both.
How great are you? I need more orientations.



Mick can do it. Yes he can !

i think mick as posted enough about his relationship,maybe you would like some photos too?

or you could buy a gossip mag

[South-east boy]

After all that Mick has gone through, I really hope that it works out this time with no more problems and they both have a very happy future together and the past problems will end up being a distant memory.

[mickcant]

Mick, I hope you dont mind asking, we are all adult and can be nosey sometimes, you told us before she dont let you make love to her, what about now ? is everything great ?

Hi all,
I hoped I had coverd this when I said as we had been apart 20 months since the wedding,apart from the 12 days she was here first, we were more or less starting again in getting close to each other.

Jennifer does now sleep in the bed normally.
The rest will hopfully follow in time.

I am really not comfotable talking about our (lack of) sex life, while everything I have said about our marriage it the truth, if Jennifer were to read that I was talking about it, I think this could couse even more damage to our relationship.
I do think things will work out given time and love.
Mick.

[bornatbirth]

if she ever read this, i think your sex life and your marriage will be over...

[aromulus]

if she ever read this, i think your sex life and your marriage will be over...

He hasn't got much, or any of either now as it stands....

I haven't fully figured the angle, but I am sure he's getting stitched up.

I dearly hope not.

[September]

He hasn't got much, or any of either now as it stands....

I haven't fully figured the angle, but I am sure he's getting stitched up.

I dearly hope not.

Mod your brain is working very very good