Thanks again Jam!
Actually this is the second time that I have done all I can, been kind and caring etc with a Filipina (last one was in uk) and they have ended it by saying that they didn't feel for me. The last timeI loved her, so was very hurt - even more so when started seeing someone else
Anyway, would have been interesting to know what would have happened if a different phone no. rang suzie's mobile phone?!