But after what happened with Suzie after Christmas where she just disappeared and it turned out that this Danish 'stranger' friend of her friends husband had gone to seen her, had stayed with the family, had proposed at the end with her proclaiming that she had met the love of her life after knowing him only a few days!), it does seem that a lot of Filipinas & their familes do expect their foreign bf to propose before going home at the first time of meeting and I guess it could be easy to fall to the pressure if you don't stand up for yourself + also get carried along with the whole thing without standing back & thinking clearly.