well dont want to put a spanner in the works here , but who realy knows what happened yes very tragic for everyone concerned, what we read and see on the news well take most of it with a pinch of salt, when someone is in a situation that we cannot control there is such a fine line that once crossed theres no going back i once had thoughts of revenged on my ex and yes if i had something at the time i would have used it too, but i am so glad i did not my life is so much better, but going back to this sad case lets keep a open mind and our views to ourselves and dont buy that crap paper