Quote Originally Posted by purple View Post
yes he knows about my children and have met them everytime he comes to phils.
my only concern is by the time when we have a children of our own. it will make me choose between looking after my new family or work for living for my children from my previous relationship. surely it is not something I can juggle up together as I need to have priorities.
about him accepting my kids is not the issue. it is about me setting priorities really.
it is different when one is already married.
Hi Purple
My assumption is that you've already talked about religion, having kids, your kids, plans for the future ..your past etc. with your husband to be so, communication is the key to any healthy realationship, as well as putting an effort to make it work...dont worry about your priorities becoz your priorities will also be his priorities eventually ...work as a team,
and start with a clean sheet...you'll be fine dear..best wishes!!!