Thanks for that Aromulus...it hurts me to agree with what you say...but it's true because I also did my own research about this document that they are requiring, it's just sad really because church wedding is the only option I am and my family are looking into for my big event, but reality just keeps preventing me to have it.
But as an alternative, i would like to consider a garden wedding, will this set up not affect my future application for spouse visa? because it says this has to be done in a registered place- cityhall and church?