Don't scare the poor girl, chances of SS getting involved with anything these days is close to zero, and you honestly think she'd do something to have her grand kid taken away?

I got done by the SS in the early 90's, havin 'beaten the crap' out of my own son, it took 6 months to prove that the person who actually done it worked in the nursery run by the SS :o Never got an apology, and the girl never got sacked