Lets just get married!

[Iani]

Yes, why not.

You can have a conventional marriage to someone- you get married, then go home together, or go on vacation - then go home together, open the presents, admire yet another toaster, and think you could start a shop selling tea towels.

Or you can have a slightly less conventional marriage where you marry her, and for various reasons, you can't be together immediately.

As long as you know it's not forever (being apart- not the marriage), then no biggie - go for it.

[songz777]

Yes, why not.

You can have a conventional marriage to someone- you get married, then go home together, or go on vacation - then go home together, open the presents, admire yet another toaster, and think you could start a shop selling tea towels.

Or you can have a slightly less conventional marriage where you marry her, and for various reasons, you can't be together immediately.

As long as you know it's not forever (being apart- not the marriage), then no biggie - go for it.

Thanks that really gives me hope Better to marry and wait than never marry her at all!