trust me, you'll know.. if a woman really loves you she wont use you for money. she will be more interested in chatting or talking to you than begging for money. sadly many filipinas do that because they are desperate there.. they are poor but they dont work. they just wait for a potentail foreigner victim to feed them. so please be very careful. and beware of boys posing as a girl ( also called ladyboys) they are dangerous..