Worried about my filipina gf

[sars_notd_virus]

Hi Mark.

In all seriousness, I would recommend you find a new lady who is GUARANTEED free of children, and is not a liar.

As Graham says there are plenty of truthful, honest filipinas out there who are free of children

Gotta agree with Graham and Ded here...too much baggage...life is complicated enough with adding additional mill stones over one's head

It is unfair to say that children from a past relationship is a ''baggage'' , its not their fault to popped out in this world having ''irresponsible selfish parents''

A real relationship works together with baggage or not.

[joebloggs]

It is unfair to say that children from a past relationship is a ''baggage'' , its not their fault to popped out in this world having ''irresponsible selfish parents''

A real relationship works together with baggage or not.

having 2 stepkids myself, i wouldn't call them 'baggage' i knew they came as part and parcel with the misses

and after more than 10yrs, no regrets at all

[gWaPito]

having 2 stepkids myself, i wouldn't call them 'baggage' i knew they came as part and parcel with the misses

and after more than 10yrs, no regrets at all

Perhaps the term baggage wasn't ideal..maybe additional emotionally weight...I wasn't for one moment referring to children as baggage...I was meaning the whole situation with child there has to be a father and perhaps a broken marriage to sort out...this was the additional weight I was referring too.

Joe, over the years I remember many a time you have reminded us about the thousands of pounds you've bombed out and the sacrifices you made in your professional career for the sake of getting all your children here...im not saying you were moaning about it but, you came close to it.

All what im saying..in hindsight given the choice you probably would of taken a smoother path.

[joebloggs]

Joe, over the years I remember many a time you have reminded us about the thousands of pounds you've bombed out and the sacrifices you made in your professional career for the sake of getting all your children here...im not saying you were moaning about it but, you came close to it.

All what im saying..in hindsight given the choice you probably would of taken a smoother path.

i've moaned about visa fees who hasn't, i've moaned about why Europeans dont have to pay and I do, even you wouldn't call that fair gWaPito

smoother path, you've no idea every day above ground is a good day

[gWaPito]

i've moaned about visa fees who hasn't, i've moaned about why Europeans dont have to pay and I do, even you wouldn't call that fair gWaPito

smoother path, you've no idea every day above ground is a good day

You're right I dont think its fair

'' every day above ground is a good day''

That's the point some of us were making...still you wouldn't change a thing now
You and me, both...I remember my days before my wife came ....magnolia walls...deathly quiet house...didn't realize what a miserable life I was having...

Now its orange walls..blue doors..hanging baskets...babies stuff everywhere and most of all the sounds of life in the house be it screaming, laughter..wife singer..marvellous!...I too wouldn't change a thing

[joebloggs]

You're right I dont think its fair

'' every day above ground is a good day''

That's the point some of us were making...still you wouldn't change a thing now
You and me, both...I remember my days before my wife came ....magnolia walls...deathly quiet house...didn't realize what a miserable life I was having...

Now its orange walls..blue doors..hanging baskets...babies stuff everywhere and most of all the sounds of life in the house be it screaming, laughter..wife singer..marvellous!...I too wouldn't change a thing

no i wouldn't change a thing, you did say with hindsight i might have taken a different path, but if i did where would i be now

i've also moaned about what the misses has gone thru to work here as a doc, the years, trips to london to do exams, the cost and time wasting again she wouldn't have had to do this if she married a European

same with me gWaPito little Joe , we've got a lot more in common than YOU think

[gWaPito]

no i wouldn't change a thing, you did say with hindsight i might have taken a different path, but if i did where would i be now

i've also moaned about what the misses has gone thru to work here as a doc, the years, trips to london to do exams, the cost and time wasting again she wouldn't have had to do this if she married a European

same with me gWaPito little Joe , we've got a lot more in common than YOU think

Joe...you are getting hold of the wrong end of the stick!

Again you've made it pointedly clear in the post ive quoted why picking a lady without previous is without doubt a much easier route to go down.

Of course you got much in common...happily married couples generally do

Joe, im not slating you..Goodness im the last person fit to pass judgement on others.

Keep up the good work Joe