Cheekee, you have gone quiet on us, please share your feelings because it will help. I think nothing we have said will stop the hurt or the feelings you have for her, but if there is one ounze of doubt... one tiny doubt, make a clean break and do it now.

There 'are' genuine ladies out there, maybe some friends of the ladies here on the forum. Please dont become another statistic of a ripped off westerner.