I think I need advice about what to do...

[cheekee]

Cheekee, you have gone quiet on us, please share your feelings because it will help. I think nothing we have said will stop the hurt or the feelings you have for her, but if there is one ounze of doubt... one tiny doubt, make a clean break and do it now.

There 'are' genuine ladies out there, maybe some friends of the ladies here on the forum. Please dont become another statistic of a ripped off westerner.

I have been quiet because I needed time to think.

I think its a really difficult one. I have all her her log in details for her Facebook, email, and yahoo and Skype She took screen shots of her phone with all the messages and contacts. The messages with her ex stopped over a month ago and she only spoke to him for two days. I have researched her name on Google and other search engines and found no new info. Everything I have asked of her to prove she is genuine about me she has done without complaint. she has been on-line constantly with me on Google talk over the last week as I have been sick from work and she hasn't been talking to anyone.

I have been using Filipino dating sites for a long time and had many scammers try it on with me. I could see them coming. I have met her parents online on skype. She has a aunty living close to me and we are in contact.

I have filipino nurse colleagues who are going to cebu soon and they are going to check her out for me.

I think I am going to be really cautious but not finish things just yet. But anything else comes up and its over.

Her ex is not a filipino.

[sars_notd_virus]

I have filipino nurse colleagues who are going to cebu soon and they are going to check her out for me.

I think I am going to be really cautious but not finish things just yet. But anything else comes up and its over.

Follow your gut instinct cheekee,...if you have the slightest doubt along the way dont pursue it.

[melovesengland]

I have been quiet because I needed time to think.

I think its a really difficult one. I have all her her log in details for her Facebook, email, and yahoo and Skype She took screen shots of her phone with all the messages and contacts. The messages with her ex stopped over a month ago and she only spoke to him for two days. I have researched her name on Google and other search engines and found no new info. Everything I have asked of her to prove she is genuine about me she has done without complaint. she has been on-line constantly with me on Google talk over the last week as I have been sick from work and she hasn't been talking to anyone.

I have been using Filipino dating sites for a long time and had many scammers try it on with me. I could see them coming. I have met her parents online on skype. She has a aunty living close to me and we are in contact.

I have filipino nurse colleagues who are going to cebu soon and they are going to check her out for me.

I think I am going to be really cautious but not finish things just yet. But anything else comes up and its over.

Her ex is not a filipino.

Its not easy I know and Im sure youre having hard time.

You know better than us because its your feelings. We hope it all goes well for you BUT do not forget this is STRIKE 1, STRIKE 2 will come and also STRIKE 3.

Be cautious like what you have said.

We are only here to advise you. Its up to you whether you take our advise or not.

Like Steve said dont add on the list of RIPPED OFF WESTERNER.