Listen, you need to be strong more now. This guy is just playing in my opinion, he is keeping your heart jumping with promises, but in the end, like has been said already, how can you marry a guy who cannot respect you or your family.
I told you that there are other guys, real 'men' who would love to meet a genuine Filipina, do not waste time in feeling sorry for him, see it as a lesson learnt. Also, Tarlac is not such a bad place, I am not too far from there myself and I have never felt unsafe while in the area.

Time to block him from your FB and Yahoo, or create a new name/username and get a new phone number so you are not always getting his hurtful messages.