Having read all this I am really lucky as Rina is really chilled - she has to calm me down - really stressed at the moment as I started a new job last month and its right on top of me..
I've let go a couple of times and she just says she loves me and she knows its not me saying anything bad but just my stress.
Guess I am lucky and I know I am, she is one in a trillion and for all my failings she is there to pick me up.

I hope you get sorted mate - I know what its like to have a partner not talk to you for many days - my ex wife used to torture me with it.

Tone