Quote Originally Posted by anvee View Post
I am very sorry to hear that. My husband and I met online, said "I love you" to each other few days after we met haha. He booked flight to Philippines 2 weeks after we met, met last February 2013, got married Aug 8th this year! we have been living together for 8 months now plus everyday chatting on skype for 4 months prior to that. I can say that I know my husband very well now. Of course he's not perfect and neither am I. But we compromise and we love each other. Trust blindly and respect! Hopefully this will be a marriage of a lifetime as divorce is not in our option!!!!!
Thank you Anvee...I too hope your's is a marriage of a lifetime. Looks like you both met and married in the same time scale as I did,

Believe me, I compromised every day ....Had the divorce option been taken out, just like you have done then, I'm sure things would of worked out..we would of found a way.

I'm not going soft here but, Jane didn't have it easy. My family rejected her...my 2 grown up kids didn't want to know. Jane made attempts to make things good...i remember when my son and daughter first visited us at our house, Jane had cooked...they woildn't eat

It didn't help that i was married to a filipina before..my family did trust her. but she did awful things to us before she left thus the mud stuck to Jane....no matter what Jane did, she was being compared..she was on a loser from the off.

What I should of done was cut ties with them and devote my life with Jane and our boys really, that's what i should of done. I wanted both, I didn't want to lose my family....What I did was wrong, I put my family above the greater good of my two baby sons..for that, I'm full of regret.