My wife wants me to leave our home.

[grahamw48]

Thank you Anvee...I too hope your's is a marriage of a lifetime. Looks like you both met and married in the same time scale as I did,

Believe me, I compromised every day ....Had the divorce option been taken out, just like you have done then, I'm sure things would of worked out..we would of found a way.

I'm not going soft here but, Jane didn't have it easy. My family rejected her...my 2 grown up kids didn't want to know. Jane made attempts to make things good...i remember when my son and daughter first visited us at our house, Jane had cooked...they woildn't eat

It didn't help that i was married to a filipina before..my family did trust her. but she did awful things to us before she left thus the mud stuck to Jane....no matter what Jane did, she was being compared..she was on a loser from the off.

What I should of done was cut ties with them and devote my life with Jane and our boys really, that's what i should of done. I wanted both, I didn't want to lose my family....What I did was wrong, I put my family above the greater good of my two baby sons..for that, I'm full of regret.

You know Mark, my parents wouldn't speak to (or have round to their house) my beautiful girlfriend of several years, then fiancee...the one later killed in a road accident. She was mixed race of course...Jamaican/English, and brought up by white foster parents.

They had no such problems later, with my Filipina wife, who I hadn't even bothered to tell them I was marrying.