I'm Starting To Feel Like An ATM

[ginapeterb]

I need advice! That girl, S, in Cebu is now claiming that she is pregnant. This is certainly a possibility as we weren't very careful at times.

She used some sort of pregnancy test from a pharmacy. Her period ended last month around March 1 this month. Is it possible that she could know this this soon? Ladies?

It could be a scam, but what can I do? While in Cebu I had an HIV test (negative, of course). I got on well with the doctor, a woman. I thought of contacting this doctor, having S see her, and having S get a pregnancy test at that same hospital.

Any advice? Ideas?

Whats your problem Pal ? why are you getting worried about this girl you told us is a complete scammer, its not your problem, and even if my some stroke of miracle she is buntis, what can you do about it ?

As isme_iye has told you, its too early anyway, she is most probably using an emotional tool to get you to feel a sense of obligation to her, if I had dollar everytime I heard this scam geeeeeeeeze when you see a bump on her belly, (tell her to send a pic) and then have her paternity tested at a later date, you will then find out if and when she has a bump, whether its yours or not.

Until that time, forget about it, and by the way, there is no Child Support Agency in the Philippines, if thats what you are worried about.

Just make sure when she sends you a photo, that she has not stuffed a pillow up her blouse cos thats common as well.

Why do you feel the need to contact the Doctor, that will cost you money, let her go to the Doctor, its her body not yours, are you in a stable loving and subsisting relationship with this woman, if so, that I could understand, but if your'e not, and youre not staying with this woman, then she decided to have horizontal olympics with you, she takes the fall as well.

Anyway you have no idea whether she is monogamous or not, how do you know who she has been with, she could have a Filipino boyfriend as well, and don't think these girls don't have one, thats common as well.

Don't do anything impetuous at the moment, think before you do or say anything, take time to calm down and breathe, and let time take its majestic course.

Best of LUck

[andypaul]

Whats your problem Pal ? why are you getting worried about this girl you told us is a complete scammer, its not your problem, and even if my some stroke of miracle she is buntis, what can you do about it ?

As isme_iye has told you, its too early anyway, she is most probably using an emotional tool to get you to feel a sense of obligation to her, if I had dollar everytime I heard this scam geeeeeeeeze when you see a bump on her belly, (tell her to send a pic) and then have her paternity tested at a later date, you will then find out if and when she has a bump, whether its yours or not.

Until that time, forget about it, and by the way, there is no Child Support Agency in the Philippines, if thats what you are worried about.

Just make sure when she sends you a photo, that she has not stuffed a pillow up her blouse cos thats common as well.

Why do you feel the need to contact the Doctor, that will cost you money, let her go to the Doctor, its her body not yours, are you in a stable loving and subsisting relationship with this woman, if so, that I could understand, but if your'e not, and youre not staying with this woman, then she decided to have horizontal olympics with you, she takes the fall as well.

Anyway you have no idea whether she is monogamous or not, how do you know who she has been with, she could have a Filipino boyfriend as well, and don't think these girls don't have one, thats common as well.

Don't do anything impetuous at the moment, think before you do or say anything, take time to calm down and breathe, and let time take its majestic course.

Best of LUck

Maybe worth offering to send a doctor/nurse friend of yours you know either from the UK or Phill to check she is ok.

If this had happened to my Wife or a friend of mine they would have been like thank you as it would save costs (well actually most likely not as they were all trainee nurses and half the family are in the medical profession) but i think you get my point.

Might be worth seeing how she reacts to that? If she is kidding around any trained medical person will pick up on it straight off.

Even just the suggestion may change the story slighty if a little bit of fiction is being used.