Hi al,l i must admit i am laughing, Itsme_iye is helping me with my English and i accept in in the vain it was ment to help, but i confees i am a lazy person.
I was born and educated in the UK, have a degree in Computer Science some times i get so worked up i forget to punctuate my emails.
I also have another little confession that lady was not my friend but my love and the woman i have been waiting on now for 3 years, yes 3 years it is complicated but i love her so much that i will do any thing for her, and i love her more now than when i met her 3 years ago i cannot stand being away from her any more, so i am going to live with her for the next few months, and if things work out as i hope i will bring her back with me. She did not get a refusal stamp in her passport, i am told that if you are refused a visa then they stamp it with this refusal stamp, well they dident, and they told her that if she gets the funds together they will give her the visa in 2 months.
I am not sure I have become very cynical of the government out there, but they have the woman I love, and my soul mate and if i have to wait another 5 years i will i never felt like this about anyone in my life before and I am sure that you hear this all the time.
Well ill be interested in your comments, go easy on this love sick fool 3 years is a long time and there is much more to this love story than i have told here it has taken its toll on me , all the best my friends i hope i can call you all that the saga continues
