Hello Blackpearl,
I would not worry too much, its unlikely that your British husband is going to come all that way to marry you and then as soon as he is home, start womanizing, he is probably lonely, ive known lots of British guys over time, some close friends of mine, who have endured long separations from the Filipino wife, some a year or more, they just get on with their jobs, and live with the fact they are not together at that time.
I don't think this female friend is a babae, however Andypaul is right, he should not be entertaining a woman in his house who is not his wife, and you are the wife now, its your right to make that point very clear to him.
Start as you mean to go on girl, you tell your husband, that you do not approve of him having a woman as a friend in his house for dinner or at any other time, tell him its not appropriate, no matter how innocent he tells you it is.
There is no such thing as a man who has a woman friend just platonic, best of luck, I am sure its nothing
