Quote Originally Posted by maria_and_matt View Post
your husband is now your family... i do understand that you feel obliged to help your family, but you also deserve to save a bit of what you earn for yourself. you are too good to your family but they have to also understand that you have a different life now. helping your parents is understandable but not aunts and uncles too.
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How are you helping them by making them reliant on hand outs?

Its tough at first but if they really love and respect you they will not need or want your money just your love and respect back.