ok thanks for the input so far. It seems like many people have had fairly intense online relationships here. If you think about it, if you are chatting every day you can get to know each other seven times quicker than chatting only once a week say. How would any guys feel about travelling to meet someone they were chatting to every day, but only for say four or five weeks. That's kind of like how I feel right now even though I feel we have developed a good connection, I know I think about her a lot. Of course I recognise there has to be a compromise of sorts, it is not my intention to string her along indefinately at all, far from it, in fact hopefully we can make plans soon. But I just wondered if there were any folks like me at all here. But then maybe I'm one of a kind
