About British Embassy Interview

[Sim11UK]

Personally, I don't think it's a good idea, to get married on your first meeting.
Remember you are going to live together, for the rest of your lives. It's not something that should be rushed into.

You need to get to know each other in person, enjoy that, build up some evidence, you have a genuine relationship, then the Embassy will look on you more favourably.

[Rosie1958]

Personally, I don't think it's a good idea, to get married on your first meeting.
Remember you are going to live together, for the rest of your lives. It's not something that should be rushed into.

You need to get to know each other in person, enjoy that, build up some evidence, you have a genuine relationship, then the Embassy will look on you more favourably.

Sim has given some very sound advice which surely should not be ignored. The trouble with internet long distance relationships is that you only “ see” what you want and cannot possibly get to know the whole person properly in this way. For example, body language accounts for at least 55% of communication and you can’t see that whilst speaking on the phone. I don't for one minute doubt that you feel you love each other but in reality, blinkered love is often a a receipe for disaster and I don’t like to say it but marry in haste, repent at leisure ............ I do hope that you will both be sensible as surely your relationship is worth building upon first rather than hastily saving travelling costs.

Good luck to you both.
Rosie x

[Sim11UK]

I do hope that you will both be sensible as surely your relationship is worth building upon first rather than hastily saving travelling costs.

This should definately be in the 'Rule Book' of Fil/Brit relationships