you have to make sure that what you have here is what you want , we work so hard here , first to have a easy life if that is posible, secound to have holidays new car tv and things like that, but that changers once you find a new partner, then you try to help her out by sending a little here and there, but still saving paying bills here, then you realiize you want to be together, well all in all thats anything up to £4000 to get them here and with the visas and so on, thats still ok but its down to yourself and work to pay for that, once she is here the savings gone and you are supporting that extra person, still great because you have worked out what it may cost, i remember emma saying her dad was so happy for her , aslong as emma is happy he is happy , i am holding him to that , emma is my life my future if she is happy i am too, money is hard to come by yes we have a nice life but no one ever gives me anything so , for now the money stays here emma now thats , never say never to anything and yes if there was a problem that wuld be sorted out but live today i say ,
